There is always a feminine force you are attracting. Money, prescience, self-reflection and even depression - each intuitive sense - these are all feminine channels. But for that feminine to manifest as a loving, caring presence (or the attention of women) - you must be willing to accept and externalize your own. In truth, there is only one feminine charge at a time in your life. You can choose where that is located and how it expresses itself in your day-to-day freely. For men, any sort of unhappiness in relationships with the opposite gender is often traced back to unrealized gentleness, a rejection of their own capacity for acceptance and warmth. When we're overly logical and greedy, jealous, emotionally detached and careless - control freaks - we leave no space for the feminine to manifest. When a man empties himself of these qualities, he becomes a vessel. The shade of a tree that bears the fruit of comfort. What brings a beautiful thing to rest and nest under it is that sacred space, one that is not occupied by other things. A healthy aura expands through one's authentic heart, and creates a space where feminine things can shelter and flourish - where they can be open, honest and vulnerable - outside of the boundaries of judgement and logic. Love, effectively. Some will attract money at the cost of this space, others will be married to depression and sorrow, or even grief, self-doubt and hatred. But they will be deeply, deeply unhappy. They will never have enough - because they will never be whole. Would you sit under a tree that has garbage all around it? Would you be attracted to it? A man with such qualities will attract what they mirror - or nothing at all. You wouldn't even consider it, of course. When you become an exemplary man - beautiful things will come and rest at your feet. You won't have to move a finger. ![[IMG_3498.jpeg]]