‘Most women don't like me! What am I doing wrong?!" And the answer is - everything. You're looking at it all the wrong way. The young man's greatest mistake is basing his worth and self-view on the ridiculous sentiment of how women view his masculinity. Masculinity is not meant to be understood by women, it can only be interpreted (or misinterpreted) by them. Even heavyweight thinkers, among many others, don't understand this simple truth when giving out advice to young men - because they themselves lack surety in their own masculinity to know otherwise. Comes in like a bomb when you tell them that most women you've been with didn't really like you that much at all. We sleep with our enemies. Because a worthy enemy always commandeers an intense sentiment from their opponent that a friendly presence can never inspire - undivided attention and forced respect. But how does that work? What's the psychology behind it? Well, yes, women will "like" you when they resonate with your feminine qualities. Like women "like" men who help their grandmothers cross the street or give flowers to their mothers. Nothing wrong with those behaviors, by the way. But attention and respect are the two currencies that "purchase" and precede sex, so to speak. If anything, if most women like you, you're doing something wrong. Most women like the wrong things in men, if you haven't noticed yet - they are not equipped to judge your masculine qualities. What you should be worried about is whether most of your contemporaries like you or not, if you're looking for an external metric. Most importantly, you should hold in the highest regard whether your true self and highest potential is being met - whether you like yourself and see yourself as a virtuous man, or not. If it's a bit early for you for that, I understand, but other men (older, more experienced gentlemen) should like and respect you, because they are far better judges of your masculine and knightly qualities. Simple, right? A woman doesn't need to like you to sleep with you, just needs to hold respect for your presence and strength, the power you bring to the table - your undeniable qualities. Contrary to what you're taught, intrigue alone is not enough either. She will use the external factors to determine your worth as a life partner, but internal factors to determine your worth as a sexual partner. What, or who, made you think that women sleep exclusively with men they like? A woman liking you has never been the prerequisite for sex, and her disliking you has never been a turnoff. It's all in your head, pipsqueak. Even your wife shouldn't like you, she should love you instead. 😁