I want young men to read this very carefully A woman's worth, in a relationship, is tested when she is presented options. These options, be it money or comfort, will come from lesser men - because only a lesser man would desire something another man has owned before him... No amount of jealous envy or control will shelter your significant other from these temptations. It is, quite frankly, impossible. You must understand that to hold a fear of losing something dear to you - the one you're holding onto must be worth holding to begin with... Understand that human beings can *choose* to degrade, debase and declassify themselves and their spirits - or they can keep making the choice of loyalty, to upkeep their oaths to you. And yes, contrary to what they'll tell you, marriage is an oath of servitude to a chosen man... These temptations will come at times when you are at your weakest, or when you least expect it, but it will not be a test for you, but, more so even - for her. If they choose animalistic survival over faith - then so be it. You've lost nothing worth holding. Move on...