Humbleness and honesty is beautiful, especially when practiced by women. Any woman can revert to a path of humbleness - don't let some hateful men fool you into that not being possible. Fear-mongering is their great mistake. All one needs it to show genuine desire for change. Instead of being spiteful, if a woman can genuinely confess: "I've not respected myself in the past, I've chosen the wrong partners - I do regret my choices and I'm afraid of making the same mistakes." You tell that to a man - that triggers his protective programming. Easier said than done, of course - as most women will go to incredible lengths to not admit this even to themselves, not just other people. I've worked with many women who were addicts or sex workers - the few that have truly, genuinely healed are now wonderful, functional folk.