Men who learn this young have better lives: If you are not her SPIRITUAL and MORAL authority in matters of VIRTUE - she WILL leave you for another. She is a reflection of the values you impart upon her, and those values must be upheld. As a man, you are only respected as much as you will tolerate. Will you tolerate slights, deception, immoral or aloof behavior? Then you are inviting these behaviors. Most men tolerate whorish behavior for sex, so they keep the company of harlots - and expect them to be loyal. These same men will then come out as "red pilled" - saying "all women are whores" - when, in truth, they have boundary issues stemming from insecurity in trauma. Their inability to address these issues causes them to facilitate and architect their own lesson of pain.