One day, you will meet someone who you will want to gift everything to - you will wish for them to have the absolute best of you. Because they will deserve it. But if you have no purity to give, no compassion, no love and no time - you will not be able to gift it to them. Therefore you will never meet them, because you will be unable to provide that which they deserve. This is why the message of purity is so heavily emphasized in circles of high spirituality. Because the knowers understand that life responds to what you *are*. And to what you *know* yourself to be. Not to how you feel. And certainly not to what you think of yourself. Reality itself reshapes itself around your most-current state, and your most-current state is always in the present moment. Reality can only respond to the truth of what you currently know yourself to be. The gaining of anything blessed and good starts first with acceptance. Accepting yourself as a part of your new reality. If you wish to meet your best person, the one who deserves the absolute best of you - first you must become that best version of yourself. Especially important within the context of the conversation regarding female purity and sexual innuendo. Yes, you are free to pleasure yourself through your body however you wish - but it is through purity that you may meet your best match. This has always been the great secret behind the retention of purity through virginity, behind the preservation of inner light and innocence. The gift of purity is the greatest thing a woman can give to her beloved. And that beloved will only show himself once inner purity is retained or (re)attained. I have always said that humans are not just electromagnetic. Humans are portals. And the inner state is the gateway into new destinies and fates. And the collective inner state is the gateway towards new and better timelines. But all the grandiosity starts at the ground level - with the union of two.